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Sacred Reflection

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The Grace of Resilience
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The Grace of Resilience

I used to pray the storms away.

Begged the sky for mercy,

asked the earth to stay still.

I thought peace meant

no waves,

no loss,

no ache.

But life had other plans.

It sent the winds.

The crumbling.

The slow unraveling

that shook me

into truth.

I broke.

And from the pieces,

something softer formed—

not weaker,

but wiser.

I no longer fear the dark.

I have sat with it too long

to doubt its gifts.

Now, I do not ask for ease.

I ask for presence.

For the grace to meet

what comes

without losing myself.

I know that life

will offer both

the bloom and the burial,

the embrace and the letting go.

And I am strong enough

to hold them all.

This is not the strength of armor,

but of roots.

Not the shine of perfection,

but the glow of one

who has wept and risen,

bent and grown.

I am not who I was.

I am not yet who I will be.

But I am here.

Breathing.

Becoming.

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Seagull Flying Over Water

Reflections

  • What recent challenge has revealed my strength in a new way?

  • Where in my life do I still resist pain or discomfort? Can I meet it with softer eyes?

  • How do I grow when I stop trying to “fix” life and instead become present to it?

  • What does it mean to live with wholeness — not perfection, but presence?

Journaling

You'll need a candle, a bowl of water, 2 small stones (one hardship; one strength), your journal.  Light the candle as you speak aloud: "I honor the whole of my life - not just the light, but the dark. Not just the ease, but the edge."  Hold the First Stone (challenge/grief).  Reflect on a current or past challenge.  Feel its weight. Place the stone in water and say: "this too is part of me."   Hold the Second Stone (strength/resilience).  Feel into your growth, your strength, your becoming.  Say aloud: "I have grown strong in the becoming."  Sit in Presence.  Gaze at the flame, the water, the stones.  Breathe in the paradox. Let it soften you.  Journal on the Reflections above.  Place both stones somewhere meaningful as reminders that you hold both and still you rise.

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