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Sacred Reflection

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Fireproof
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Fireproof

I spent a lifetime gripping the illusion—

security, control, certainty.

I feared the unknown,

resisted change,

built my world around the idea of safety.

But that safety was a cage.

A prison painted in perfection.

Hard work.

Good girl.

Exhausted woman.

I gave until I disappeared.

I stayed until I shattered.

And still, I held on—

until life pried my fingers loose.

It all fell apart.

And in the wreckage,

I found myself.

The fires came—

not to punish,

but to purify.

They burned the fear from my bones.

They seared the false stories from my skin.

And I emerged fireproof.

Now, I walk with trust.

I don’t need a map—

my soul is my compass.

I am no longer afraid of what I cannot control.

Because I know who walks with me.

And she is fearless.

She is sovereign.

She is me.

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Seagull Flying Over Water

Reflections

  • What illusions of safety or control have you clung to in the past?  How did those illusions keep you small or stuck?

  • Have you experienced a life event that disrupted your “security” but ended up setting you free?  What did it teach you about surrender?

  • What does fear feel like in your body?  What does trust feel like?

Journaling

Light a candle and take three deep breaths. 


Say aloud, “I trust the fire to purify, not destroy.” 


Read the poem slowly. 

Then write a letter to the part of you that once clung tightly to control—thank her, honor her, and gently release her. 


Let the flames of your words reveal your strength.

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