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Sacred Reflection

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To Be Known
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To Be Known

All I ever wanted was to be known.

Not the mask.

Not the role.

Not the performance.

But the real me—

tender, introspective, radiant with truth.

As a child, my voice was not heard.

My body misread.

My softness disciplined into silence.

So I hid beneath layers—

adaptable, pleasing, lost in the hustle

of becoming what they wanted.

But my soul never stopped whispering,

“Come home.”

Now, I peel back the facade.

I stand here raw, sovereign, unafraid.

I want to be known.

Not just liked.

Not just admired.

Known.

Seen in my softness.

Heard in my honesty.

Met in my depth.

And if I leave nothing else behind,

let it be this:

My sons will say,

“She was brave.”

“She was real.”

“I knew my mother—not the mask, but the woman.”

She did not hide behind fear.

She did not twist to fit the mold.

She became.

And in her becoming,

she gave us all permission to be real, too.

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Reflections

  • What parts of yourself were hidden, shamed, or misunderstood growing up?  How did this shape the way you show up in relationships today?

  • What does it mean to you to be truly known?  Not just seen—but known in your authenticity.

  • What legacy do you want to leave in the hearts of those you love?

  • What do you want them to say about who you really were?

Journaling

Find a mirror and sit with yourself in quiet reflection. 


Light a candle and gaze into your eyes as you repeat: 


“I deserve to be known. I am safe to be seen.” 


Read the poem slowly. 


Then write a love letter to your true self—the one you hid, the one you're now honoring. Let it be tender. Let it be real.

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